tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7034988638524682294.post6474459730563107479..comments2023-06-01T09:00:32.809-04:00Comments on The 'I'm Gonna Do That' Girl: The Life of an AfterthoughtAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13080722186604676424noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7034988638524682294.post-9299000944292183752012-06-04T07:57:05.733-04:002012-06-04T07:57:05.733-04:00never an afterthought here in my heart . . .never an afterthought here in my heart . . .lynnhttp://www.tumblr.com/blog/lynnwordsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7034988638524682294.post-74790933955538770982012-05-24T15:01:36.088-04:002012-05-24T15:01:36.088-04:00I tend to go up and down with people. Almost every...I tend to go up and down with people. Almost every aspect of my life has cycles, and friendships are no exception. I'll be in very close contact with one person for a while, and then it'll slacken off while another one takes precedence. Then it'll move on, and it just keeps going. I still retain all the same friends, but the level of involvement definitely has its ups and downs. I'm perfectly okay with it, as it lends variety and a nice change of perspective. I'm also not that close to very many people, so I don't expect to be the first one they contact about stuff. Totally fine with that, too. I have enough stress dealing with myself and daily life. I tend to find get-togethers and constantly returning contacts very stressful, and it's a good thing I'm not higher on other people's radar. Come to think of it, I'd make a dreadful lawyer. They'd probably have to lock me up.<br /><br />None of this is particularly helpful in your case, but I felt like sharing. :p I'm glad you're at peace with your growing up self.Adrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06405575961229611037noreply@blogger.com